Have you ever felt the need to let go of something?

Maybe it was a clothing item you haven’t worn in years, maybe it was that one thing (or several things) you’ve hoarded for a while, maybe it was a friend who really wasn’t your friend, or a community you felt a part of at one point, but now they seem like strangers.

That moment when you realize it’s time to let go is so crucial. You may feel so much peace about it that you can’t wait to let it go. Or you may be so sick to your stomach about finally releasing it that it keeps you up at night.

It takes bravery; because you don’t know what will happen once you finally cut ties with whatever it is you’re holding onto. Will things get better or worse? Will you ever heal, will you ever move forward? Will you continue to mourn about it, and for how long?

It’s funny because I know so many people will read this post, and have assumptions about what I’m talking about. “Is she currently letting go of something/someone?” you may ask. To that, I answer: not every blog post is about ME; it could very well be about someone else’s experience I’m reflecting on.

If you’re in a season of letting go, I pray for peace for you! While it may hurt now, each day will get easier and easier. You may still have moments when you desire that thing/person/community back. I encourage you to remember why you let go in the first place; and forge ahead, confident that you made the right decision! Try to be grateful for what the release provided rather than be sad at the lack it left behind…

One less piece of clothing means more space in your closet.

Less hoarded things means more space in your home.

One less friend provides space for a new friend.

And leaving a community means you’re able to join another one that you feel more connected to.

So, don’t be afraid of the release; EMBRACE it.

What’s something that you’ve had to release recently?

Mishy 🦋🧡